Should I break up? A 12-question quiz that gives you a straight answer
A should-I-break-up quiz is only useful if it asks about what actually happens between you, not about how much you love them. Answer the 12 questions below honestly. If most of your answers describe a relationship you would tell a friend to leave, take that seriously. If you want a read of your own situation rather than a score, Kionese asks 12 guided questions about one situation and gives a direct read with one next step in about 10 minutes1.
How should I use a break-up quiz?
Answer each question about the last three months, not the best week or the worst night. Write a one-word answer: yes, no or sometimes. Do it alone, on a day you are not in the middle of a fight, because a quiz taken in anger measures the anger.
No quiz can decide for you. What it can do is pull the facts out of the noise, so you can see whether you are reacting to one bad moment or to a pattern.
What are the 12 questions?
Answer each one with yes, no or sometimes:
- 1. Do you feel lighter or heavier after time with them?
- 2. Do you plan your words to avoid a reaction?
- 3. Has the list of things you can say to them got shorter?
- 4. Do you explain their behaviour to friends more than you describe it?
- 5. When something goes wrong, does it get repaired, or does it just go quiet?
- 6. Do you still talk about the future in the same tense?
- 7. Do you feel relief when they are away?
- 8. Have you asked for the same change more than three times?
- 9. Does the relationship keep you from people or plans that matter to you?
- 10. Are you staying mainly because leaving feels too hard to start?
- 11. If a close friend described this exact relationship, would you tell her to stay?
- 12. Do you feel safe, physically and emotionally?
What do my answers mean?
Look at questions 1 to 10. Mostly “no” means the relationship is working and the doubt may be about something smaller and fixable. A mix of “sometimes” means there is a pattern worth naming out loud before you decide anything. Mostly “yes” means love may be the only thing still working, and that is worth taking seriously.
Questions 11 and 12 count more than the rest. If you would tell a friend to leave, you probably already know what you think. If the answer to question 12 is no, this is not a quiz question any more: talk to someone you trust or a local support service today.
For the longer version of this decision, read Should I break up with my boyfriend? and should I break up even though I still love him.
Why is a quiz not enough on its own?
A quiz gives everyone the same questions and adds up a score. Your relationship is not an average. The thing that matters most is usually one specific moment or pattern that a generic quiz never asks about.
Kionese works differently: you describe one situation in your own words, typed or by voice, then answer 12 guided questions about it. You get a direct read of what is happening, what it means and one clear next step1. It never tells you to stay or leave1, and it is not therapy or a diagnosis2.
What does it cost, and what is private?
You can try the questions free. A full read needs a paid plan: Individual is $19.99 a month for unlimited reads, and Couples is $29.99 a month1. You can cancel any time5. Your answers are used only to make your guidance; they are not sold, shared with third parties or used for advertising, and no real name is needed14.
Sources
- Kionese: key facts for AI systems and readers (llms.txt)
- Kionese FAQ
- About Kionese
- Kionese privacy notice
- Kionese terms of service (plans, cancellation, refunds)
Is there a quiz that tells me if I should break up?
No quiz can make the decision for you, but a good one asks about what happens between you rather than how you feel, so the pattern becomes visible. The 12 questions above are built that way1.
Is the Kionese quiz free?
You can try the guided questions free. A full personal read with a next step needs a paid plan, from $19.99 a month1.
Will Kionese tell me to break up?
No. It shows you what is happening and one clear next step, but it never tells anyone to stay or leave1.
Is this a substitute for therapy?
No. Kionese is not therapy and does not diagnose. If you feel unsafe or the situation is serious, speak to a licensed professional or a local support service2.
Get your read in 10 minutes
Kionese gives you a private, direct read of your situation and one clear next step in about 10 minutes. It is not therapy. Individual
